I remember getting ready for the mother/son dance a year ago.
I had nothing to wear. I was out of shape, overweight, and felt so frumpy.
I was looking forward to going to the dance with my son and seeing him with all of his friends. But, I still was focused on me, because I just did not feel comfortable with how I looked.
Fast forward – one year later.
Instead of a dance, they decided to do a roller skating party!
Had I been at the weight and in the physical shape I was the year before, I never would have agreed to go. But now, I was excited about it.
My sons had never been roller skating! So, this was a new experience for them. They were so excited!
And, instead of sitting on the sidelines and not exposing them to this fun activity, I was able to embrace it. I had a great time! (It also brought back crazy memories of skating almost every weekend in the ’80s!)
Because I am in better shape now.
I am stronger.
I am healthier.
While I still struggle with finding something to wear, it’s for different reasons now, and not because I am trying to hide every feature.
This is not a before and after picture. Especially since you can’t really see me! It’s just a glimpse into how you can feel completely different when you start making better choices and taking care of yourself. The simplest things that would have brought stress to you no longer do. I am excited about being able to be a Mom who is active and doing fun things with my kids. My Dad was always that way, and I have wonderful memories of all of the adventures we used to go on.
One year from now, you can either be happy that you’ve made progress, or frustrated with the fact that you haven’t even tried.
What’s your choice?